We need to vent out every once in a while to release the tension inside us. It’s just that people, sometimes, misunderstood it as attention seeking when all we need is just someone who will listen and understand us.
Summer. The sky gets bluer. The nights get deeper. And the days are just better.
The next school year, I will be on my last and final year of High school. Senior year. Where every single act is threatened by a “Di ka gragraduate nyan,” and every single thing you do ends up being about the aftermath of graduation. The year where everyone becomes incontrovertibly reminiscent and clingy and everything you haven’t done past tense becomes a thing you’ve done, all for the name of experience and last-minute fun. “I will miss you” is frequent for in High school, we are reckless of our words. We say things we don’t mean and we crush hearts and we make drama but complain about too much drama and we do things based on instinct then complain why other people do things without thinking about what they’re doing. Over-all, we’re just plain reckless, and in senior year, we become even more reckless. But the point is it’s okay, or at least for me. So let’s screw things up and do things we shouldn’t do and make a mess all over ourselves, let’s give our future selves something to laugh about. It’s senior year, after all? =))
Besides, this year’s gonna be really good because Suhod, my love and I are gonna be batch mates. Eeeeh. Hihihi. :”>
Kapag sinusukat mo yung pagmamahal? Kapag humihingi ka ng kapalit sa binibigay mo? Kapag iniisip mong unfair kasi parang mas ikaw yung nagmamahal? Hindi yan true love. :)
Kapag nagmahal ka kasi ng totoo, walang sukatan eh.
Oo, sa relasyon, andun yung give-and-take process. Yung nagbibigay ka, tapos siya pinupunan niya rin.
At andun yung mararamdaman mong pagod ka nang magbigay kasi siguro nararamdaman mong ikaw yung mas nagmamahal o ikaw yung give nang give.
Normal yung makaramdam ng ganon, normal pero mali. Hindi naman porke hindi ka niya minamahal tulad ng paraan ng pagmamahal mo or pageeffort mo, eh hindi ka na niya mahal. Iba kasi tayo, ibig sabihin..
Me kanya-kanyang tayong paraan ng pagmamahal. You just have to trust your partner and let him/her love you the way he/she knows or wants to.
Mali rin yung idemand mo na mahalin ka ng taong mahal mo tulad ng paraan mo ng pagmamahal o tulad ng gusto mo. Mali yung gustuhin mong suklian o higitan niya lahat lahat ng ginagawa mo. Kaya nga effort ,diba? Nageffort ka kasi gusto mo magbigay hindi kasi may gusto kang kapalit.
Hindi mo susukatin eh, hindi mo iisipin kung sino yung “mas” dahil ang tanging importante sayo eh iparamdam sa taong yun na mahal mo siya, walang pero pero, walang bakit bakit, walang hihilingin na kapalit, basta alam mong mahal ka rin niya at maparamdam mong mahal mo siya, sapat na yun.
Kasi nga, love is selfless. :-)
Relationship isn’t just about what you want and how you want it to be like. Honestly, there’s going to be things or habits that you dislike about your lover and you want him/her to stop doing it. You’re being demanding when you tell them about it and expect them to change instantly for you, that if they agree to change. What if they wouldn’t or couldn’t change? Arguments would arise and both of you will constantly fight about the issue. Why not compromise with it? You could do your part by changing your own attitude or perspective towards the issue, make some ground rules that both would agree to follow and I assure you, things will be different and even better from before. At least, it worked for me. :)